7 THINGS TO AVOID IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Before we begin, it is important for you to know that no relationship - whether friendship or love relation - is perfect, no matter how hard you try. Your partner has a bad character and so do you. If you are trying to save your relationship or make it a bit happier, here are seven things you and your partner should avoid doing in your relationship.
1. STOP SUSPECTING
It is good to keep in touch with your partner but don't go too far. Relationship is all about trust. So keep in mind that you are his beloved and he isn't going to cheat on you. When you trust your partner then there will be no need to suspect.
2. BREAK THE HABIT OF COMPARING
Comparing your partner others especially your ex or your friends partner will do you more harm than good. It makes you see reasons to break the relationship. Remember nobody is perfect. From time to time we all make comparisons and it often happens unintentionally but this should no go extra mile in your relationship. When you see something your partner is not doing right tell him or her instead of criticizing and comparing. Try as much as possible to concentrate and the aspect of your partner.
3. DONT TAKE YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED
You will never build a long term relationship when you take your partner for granted. Always try to make your partner feel important. Letting your partner know about your love toward her is not sufficient, so you must constantly appreciate your partner for who she or he is.
4. STOP LYING.
To keep you relationship lying must never be an option, no matter how tiny it is. You may even call it white lie. Your white lie today can become black in your relationship tomorrow and may even ruin it. Just try as much as possible to be honest to your partner.
5. GET RID OF ANGER.
Even the bible says that anger lies in the bosom of fools. I know you don't want to be a fool in your relationship. It is important to know that sustaining a relationship is not an easy task because mistakes are inevitable and there is nothing wring with that. All you have to do is discuss about it and try to forgive who ever is wrong. When you are also wrong learn to say am sorry. Anger can never sustain a relationship.
6. DON'T PRESSURIZE YOUR PARTNER TO DO WHAT YOU WANT
When you pressurize your partner, it shows a sign of immaturity. If you behave this way, you are actually disrespecting your partner. If you or your partner continue to pressurize each other from the beginning, that relationship will not last.
7. DON'T LET YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECOME BORING.
At the beginning of a relationship everything is new, so you love to spend time with each other. But as it progresses, the relationship may become boring. You must avoid this as it will crush your relationship eventually. Nobody wants a boring relationship. To prevent this, always try doingnew things like vising new places, hanging out with friends and constantly doing what your partner likes. Also try to be funny.